Capturing Legacy: How to Take the Best Family Photographs in Later Life

There's something profoundly moving about gathering multiple generations together for a family portrait. These aren't simply photographs – they're visual heirlooms, tangible connections between past, present and future. They represent the culmination of a life well-lived and the bonds that transcend time.

Below, we explore why matriarch and patriarch portraits matter so deeply, how to prepare for them thoughtfully, and share expert insights from royal portrait photographer Hugo Burnand, one of our trusted friends and a speaker at our Life Enrichment and Wellbeing programme. These principles will help you create photographs that your family will cherish for generations to come.

Why are family portraits in later life so meaningful?

Family portraits taken in later life carry a weight and significance that few other photographs can match. They celebrate the wisdom, strength and love of the family's guiding figures – the matriarchs and patriarchs who have shaped the lives of those around them. These images become touchstones for future generations, offering a visual connection to ancestors they may never meet or may only know in their earliest years.

Beyond their sentimental value, these portraits serve as a moment of recognition and honour. They acknowledge the contributions, sacrifices and unconditional love that our elders have given throughout their lives. The process of creating these photographs (bringing everyone together, taking time to truly see one another) is often as valuable as the finished image itself.

When is the best time to arrange a matriarch or patriarch portrait?

The simple answer is: now. We often wait for the "perfect" moment (a milestone birthday, an anniversary, or a special occasion), but the truth is that the best time for these photographs is whenever the idea first occurs to you. Life is wonderfully unpredictable, and we cannot always anticipate when circumstances might change.

That said, certain occasions do provide natural opportunities for gathering the whole family. Significant birthdays ending in zero or five, golden wedding anniversaries, or family reunions all offer excellent reasons to commission a formal portrait. Some families choose to make it an annual or biennial tradition, creating a beautiful visual record of how the family grows and evolves over time.

How should you prepare for a successful portrait session?

Thoughtful preparation ensures that everyone, particularly elderly family members, can enjoy the experience without feeling overwhelmed or exhausted: Begin by having a gentle conversation together about your vision for the photographs. Where would you feel most comfortable? What would you like to wear? Who should be included? Their preferences should guide every decision.

Choosing the perfect location

The setting you choose profoundly influences the mood of your portraits. A family home, especially one with generations of memories within its walls, often works beautifully. Gardens provide natural beauty and softer light, whilst formal sitting rooms lend elegance and gravitas. If your loved one resides at KYN or another care home, you'll often find beautifully appointed spaces that photograph wonderfully whilst allowing everyone to remain comfortable in a familiar environment.

Coordinating everyone's attire

Rather than matching outfits exactly, aim for a subtle colour palette. Classic, timeless pieces photograph better than fleeting fashions. Solid colours or subtle patterns work best. Most importantly, everyone should feel comfortable and like themselves – authenticity always creates more meaningful portraits than forced formality.

Practical arrangements that respect everyone's needs

Consider timing carefully. Natural light in the late morning or early afternoon tends to be most flattering, and this timing often works well for older and younger family members' energy levels. Allow plenty of time so no one feels rushed and build in breaks if needed. For families with young children, having small treats or activities on hand can help keep little ones engaged and happy.

Expert Insights from Hugo Burnand

Hugo Burnand, who photographed the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge's wedding and holds a Royal Warrant for his work, brings a wealth of experience to family portraiture. We asked him about his approach to creating meaningful multi-generational portraits:

"Preparation truly is everything. When I photographed William and Catherine's wedding, we spent three weeks in serious pre-production. Visit the location in advance, consider the light at different times of day, and work through the logistics.

Some of the most beloved photographs are the least planned though. Always leave room for spontaneity. Yes, prepare meticulously, but also trust your instincts. Sometimes the most precious moment happens when a grandmother reaches for her great-grandchild's hand, or when the family shares a genuine laugh at a shared memory. These unguarded moments can't be directed – they can only be witnessed and captured.

Something many forget is to consider taking portraits in black and white, as well as in colour.  Monochrome photography provides a timeless feel, that always feels fresh, whereas – surprisingly perhaps – colour can date a photograph more quickly.”

 What elements create truly exceptional family portraits?

The finest family portraits balance technical excellence with emotional authenticity. Composition matters – the matriarch or patriarch typically takes a central position, with other generations arranged around them in a way that feels natural and shows the connections between family members. Varying heights through a mix of sitting and standing creates visual interest whilst ensuring everyone is clearly visible.

Lighting transforms a good photograph into an exceptional one. Soft, diffused natural light is generally most flattering, particularly for older subjects. Harsh overhead lighting or direct sunshine can create unflattering shadows, so gentler alternatives work best. The environment should complement rather than distract – you want viewers' eyes drawn to faces and the connections between family members.

Most importantly, the most treasured portraits capture genuine emotion. These aren't necessarily the ones where everyone is looking directly at the camera with perfect smiles. Often, it's the in-between moments that capture the true essence of family – and these emerge when everyone feels relaxed and comfortable.

Celebrating Life and Legacy at KYN

At KYN, we understand the importance of family connections and creating lasting memories. Our beautifully designed homes in London provide elegant settings where families can gather comfortably, whether for special occasions like portrait sessions or simply spending quality time together.

Our approach centres on enriching each resident's life whilst maintaining their independence, dignity and individuality. We welcome families with open arms and flexible visiting arrangements, recognising that these connections are fundamental to wellbeing.

If you're considering residential, nursing, or dementia care for a loved one, we invite you to visit and experience the warmth and exceptional care that define KYN. To arrange a visit or request a brochure, enquire today.